Are you wondering how to plan an elopement wedding? Elopements are all about creating a day that’s uniquely yours—a romantic, intimate celebration without the stress of a big wedding. If you’re thinking an elopement, this guide will help you navigate every step with ease.
How to plan an elopement wedding: 5 steps to starting the planning process!
Starting your elopement planning might feel overwhelming, but remember: it’s all about simplicity! Here’s how to start:
- Envision your day – What does your perfect day look like? A simple, nature-inspired ceremony, or perhaps a more adventurous day with just the two of you?
- Create a budget – Elopements are typically less costly, but having a budget for things like photography, attire, travel, and decor is important.
- Choose a date & location – Do you dream of saying “I do” by the waterfall at Hightower Falls, or somewhere else that speaks to you? Wherever it is, especially if it’s outdoors, you still need to check things like weather and seasonality for all aspects of your planning! For example, some mountain trails may be closed seasonally. Wildflowers are only in bloom at certain times of year. And monsoon season may not be the best time for a beach elopement!
- Double check legal requirements – Make sure you understand the marriage laws in your chosen location (more on this later).
- Hire a photographer and/or videographer – If you want these memories captured for yourselves (and to share with friends and family later), start looking early for a travel or elopement photographer and videographer! These can book up fast and if it’s something you want, it’s part of the elopement process you’ll want to lock down in advance!
Frequently asked questions about eloping
Do you walk down the aisle when you elope?
If you’d like to! Many eloping couples choose to create a unique “aisle” moment, whether it’s walking down a forest path or stepping onto a cliffside view point. It’s totally up to you! At Hightower Falls, a romantic, simple aisle can be set up right by the falls for that intimate touch.
How to do you plan an elopement with family?
If you want to include family in your elopement, invite just a few loved ones. Keep them informed about the location, time, and attire, but stay true to your simple vision. An intimate family elopement at Hightower Falls can feel like a small, cherished gathering without the formality or price tag of a full wedding.
Is eloping a legal marriage?
Yes, eloping is a legal marriage as long as you have a marriage license and an officiant present. Be sure to check with your elopement location regarding their requirements—each state has its own rules for obtaining a marriage license, so plan to secure this in advance!
Elopement planning checklist for 2025
6-12 months before elopement:
- Get clear on your vision and budget
- Choose your elopement location (consider Hightower Falls! We offer 2 special elopement packages)
- Select a date & check the weather, seasonality, and availability for your location
- Start booking process with a photographer or videographer and your officiant
3-6 months before elopement:
- Apply for marriage license (if required in your location)
- Order your attire (dress, suit, etc)
- Book travel and accommodations
- Plan your ceremony details: are there specific vows or rituals you’d like to include?
1-2 months before elopement:
- Plan for florals, if desired (a small bouquet or boutonniere can add a beautiful touch)
- Finalize plans with any attending family or friends
- Plan post-ceremony celebrations or meals
Week of elopement:
- Pick up the marriage license- yay!! (if it’s a local requirement)
- Confirm with vendors
- Pack for your elopement day and bring along any personal touches or decor
Hightower Falls Elopement Wedding Packages
We hope this helped answer some of your questions about how to plan an elopement wedding.
At Hightower Falls, our 80 foot spring-fed waterfall backdrop and lush surroundings make for a magical, natural elopement setting. Our elopement packages make it easy to have a meaningful and intimate ceremony surrounded by nature. Packages can include everything from simple setup options to photography, officiant services, and more. Reach out to our team to create a customized package that fits your vision.
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